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Joel & Kendra's Stunning Spring Wedding at Four Seasons Hotel - Downtown Denver

4/25/2022

 
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MBD was honored to receive the lovely inquiry from Kendra asking for assistance with her BIG DAY!  A connection through mutual friends brought us together. Knowing the company tis couple keeps, we enthusiastically said YES! Kendra is as buttoned-up as brides come. We share our love of spreadsheets and low stress events.

Joel and Kendra hired nearly all of the vendors we recommended - Sarah Goff Photography, Howe Eventful, Jen Goodrich Hair & Make-up, and Boulder Blooms. With this line of of vendors, and a wedding at The Four Seasons, you have a recipe for the BEST DAY EVER!

​Sarah Goff Photography took SO MANY amazing photos - it's tough just to highlight a few. Enjoy!
Joel & Kendra's biggest wedding planning advice: "Get help! Hire a planner and have great people helping with the event."


Vendor Dream Team:
Photography: Sarah Goff
Venue & Catering: Four Seasons Hotel Denver
Event Planning: My Big Day - Event Planning 
HMUA: Jen at Rebel Salon
Flowers: Boulder Blooms
Cake: Four Seasons Hotel Denver
Videography: Eric Einstein Photography and Video
DJ: Howe Eventful | Colorado DJ Entertainment
2nd Photographer: McGonzo Photo
Small Business. Big Impact.
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As a connected collective of experts, My Big Day specializes in the creative touches so many marketing campaigns & events these days are lacking. With superior organization, marketing experience and original ideas, we pull off amazing events and campaigns! 
Allow us to WOW you and your guests!
As purveyors of fun with My Big Day, we support businesses and individuals in the growth of their ideas, events and marketing strategies. Our creative aptitude allows for unique ideas. Our passion for perfection makes every client a priority!


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Creating a Wedding Budget

1/23/2022

 
By Carrie Stadtmueller, Content Conductor
 
Ok, now that you have said “Yes” - what’s the next step?
 

Of course, everyone really wants to fast forward to all of the fun stuff – cake tastings, Pinterest surfing for reception decor, finding the perfect dress - but the best and smartest next step should be setting and sticking to your wedding budget.
 
We know. This next step can be a real B.
 
Whether you’re working with $100 or $100,000 (wow, wouldn’t that be a dream??), the general guidelines are the same.
 
First Things First – Think about what kind of wedding you want

This might be the easiest part of the whole process. Perhaps you’ve been dreaming about your wedding day since you were a little girl. But, if not - it’s time to get to work.
 
Now is the time to have those conversations with your partner and see if you are both on the same page when it comes to the kind of wedding that you both want. There are so many different kinds of weddings out there - do you both want the same kind of wedding?
Perhaps your dream wedding is traditional, but theirs is a destination elopement. Or would you prefer low key and relaxed instead of their formal and high class?
 
This is where you need to start. Planning a wedding can put a lot of stress on a relationship. Make sure you are both on the same page before moving forward. This may mean making some compromises.
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​Figure Out Who Will Be Contributing

Once you have decided what kind of wedding you will be planning, now decide how you plan to pay for it. Will you and your partner be covering most of the cost? Or will your families be helping?
Whatever the case, finding out who might be contributing to your wedding is a good first step when you’re calculating your overall budget.
It’s most helpful if you can get a handle on a nice “round” number or perhaps what aspect of the event the party will be covering. For example - will the groom’s family be paying for the rehearsal dinner as is tradition? Or perhaps you have a devoted Aunt who really wants to help cover the retainer for the photographer as part of her wedding gift.
 
These conversations can be awkward, but they will be helpful in the long run as you make large financial decisions.
 
Crunch, Crunch, Crunch the Numbers - Including Your Number of Guests

Now is where the the math comes in and where you need to get serious about figuring out how much you have to actually spend.
Figure out how much you can realistically and comfortably spend.
This is also the time where you will want to start making your guest list. The number of guests you intend to invite will ultimately have an effect on your budget’s bottom line. Looking at your wedding as a “per-person” expenditure will help with this process.
 
 
Take this number and begin negotiations
By now, you and your partner will be pros at compromising and negotiating - especially if you had differing opinions on what your “dream wedding” looked like. Use those skills to negotiate what items to prioritize when it comes to staying within your budget.
 
Make it an exercise - each of you can pick two things that are at the top of your wedding priority list. Budget for those items. Everything else is extra until the budget is maxxed out.
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Savvy Brides Do Their Research

There are a lot of hidden costs when it comes to weddings. S​avvy brides do their research and find ways to save money. Even smarter brides realize that hiring a wedding planner can ultimately help you save money in the long run. (see this link on why you should hire a wedding planner). Wedding planners provide so much business to vendors, they are often able to negotiate discounts for their clients. They are also well versed at helping couples set budgets and are masters at sticking to them.
 
At the end of the day…..

One thing to remember - at the end of the day, the most important thing is that you will be married to the love of your life. It won’t matter if you have steak and shrimp or the most expensive dress. What matters is that you will be together.
 
Don’t start out your new life together drawing in debt. You can still plan a beautiful and memorable wedding on a much smaller and affordable scale. There are ways to plan a champagne wedding on a beer budget - you just have to get creative. You focus on the feeling of the event, instead of the price tag.
 
Here are some practical tips as you start planning:
  • Put aside money each month as you plan
  • Use your credit cards responsibly. Try to pay off the balance immediately so not to accrue interest.
  • Open a separate wedding account so you can see exactly where the money is going
  • Scour the interwebs for wedding deals and discounts – they are everywhere!
 
 
Again, remember - its who you’re marrying and the memories you make together that are important, not the wedding and the money you spend.
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9 Wedding Bar Trends for 2022

12/28/2021

 
​Almost a third of brides-to-be get engaged over the holidays, which means some of you will be stocking up on wedding magazines and poring over wedding checklists in the coming weeks (or maybe you already are, while you wait for that ring – we won’t judge). Weddings are part of our business at MBD Marketing & Events --- and for our client, On the Rocks, so we like to keep up with the latest trends, including this list of nine wedding bar trends for 2022.
 
Did you know 2.6 million weddings are forecast to happen in the U.S. in 2022? That’s the most since almost 40 years ago, in 1984. If you’re one of these millions getting married in the new year, read on for what’s “in” in 2022. 
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​Mobile Bars
 
Hey, that’s us! Mobile bars are still big for 2022, especially those that are serviced. Portable or permanent bars are traditional at wedding venues, but traditional can get a bit boring. Opt for a unique, whimsical mobile bar like our Pearl instead. You’ll stand out from the rest and get tailored service from our TIPS-certified bartenders.
 
Mocktails and Low-ABV Cocktails
 
Having guests at your wedding who don’t drink alcohol is nothing new. But more and more brides and grooms are deciding they’d rather avoid drunken family drama and other inappropriate guest behavior by offering alcohol-free mocktails or “low-alcohol by volume” cocktails.
 
Non-alcoholic beer has been around for decades, but alcohol-free spirits mimicking the taste of tequila, vodka, and flavored liqueurs are increasingly popular. Low-ABV cocktails still contain alcohol, but in percentages similar to those of beer and wine, rather than hard liquor. 
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​Customization and Personalization
 
We love the trend of couples wanting to infuse every part of their big day with their personalities and interests, and this includes cocktails. The signature cocktail came about as a way for couples to create their own drinks, rather than follow recipes from a bar book. Consider a signature cocktail for each newlywed, or one that celebrates the couple.
 
Special touches like monogrammed drink stirrers or personalized napkins are another way to make a statement.
 
Creative Presentations
 
The signature cocktail movement has translated into seemingly endless cocktail presentation possibilities. Couples with a carnival theme may serve drinks in striped cups rimmed with frosting and sprinkles, movie buffs might skewer popcorn for a garnish, and dessert fanatics can serve boozy milkshakes in cookie cups or ice cream cones.
 
Fresh Floral Bar Decor
 
Fresh flowers and greenery aren’t only for bouquets and boutonnieres. Bars are becoming a decor focal point at weddings, incorporating the style of the wedding ceremony and reception. Whether your budget allows for some sprigs of greenery or elaborate bar arrangements, fresh florals make your bar an inviting focal point instead of an afterthought.
 
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​Canned Beers, Wines, and Cocktails
 
Canned drinks are ideal for small, intimate weddings or at venues with a strict no-glass rule. They’re also convenient, with less spilling and easier cleanup. You’ll save money on drinkware rentals and washing. Plus, there are so many canned alcoholic beverages available these days, you can find can designs to suit your wedding colors or theme.
 
It’s still good practice to let an experienced bartender (like our TIPS-certified ones) be in charge of canned drinks, to prevent incidents due to guests being over-served. In Colorado, for example, you could even be held liable for an over-served guest who drinks and drives after your event.
 
Vintage Drinks
 
Traditional cocktails are back in style, most notably the aptly-named Old Fashioned. Vintage touches lend elegance to modern weddings. Even the champagne tower, where champagne is poured over a tower of old-fashioned champagne coupes, is making a comeback that doubles as both refreshment and eye-catching decoration.
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re-Ceremony Refreshment Bar
 
Another growing trend is the pre-ceremony refreshment bar, which offers guests non-alcoholic options like fruit-infused waters in summer or a hot chocolate station in the winter. It’s not a bad idea to provide some light snacks too, especially for guests who traveled a long way the day of the ceremony and to prevent fainting at a hot summer wedding.
 
Themed Bar and Drinks
 
Your bar and drinks can emulate the overall style of your wedding, or you can get creative with themed cocktails and bar decorations that mean something to you as a couple. One popular option is a travel-themed bar, with cocktails from countries or regions you’ve traveled to as a couple.
 
A cocktail hour bar can also be decorated to suit a theme different from your ceremony and reception style, such as a favorite hobby of the groom or the couple. Drinks themselves can be customized to suit that theme, with creative names and garnishes.
Need a wedding planning team? Look no further than the gals at MBD Marketing & Events!
You can learn more about our Colorado and Wyoming wedding packages HERE.

Ready to book mobile bar services for your 2022 wedding? 
Contact ON THE ROCKS now. Choose from one of their ready-made packages, or they can create a custom package for you. 
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Eriq & Ash’s Wedding Bash

10/25/2021

 
We had the pleasure of planning the early September wedding for long-time My Big Day friends Eriq Sanders and Ashley Schwindt. It was a joy to witness their beautiful wedding ceremony on top of the Elizabeth Hotel!
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Classic Elegance with a Colorful Twist​
Eriq and Ashley chose The Elizabeth Hotel as the backdrop for their wedding because of its classic and elegant style. Ashley had dreamed of having their first look photos on the grand staircase, and her dream did not disappoint -- it was a bucket-list shot, for sure!
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​The Rooftop Terrace was a perfect mix of classic elegance that Eriq and Ashley spiced up with a mix of colors that fit their bright personalities. Their color palette of oranges and deep purples blended nicely above the beginning changing fall colors in the Old Town trees below.
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​Friends and family were treated to a beautiful ceremony that included deeply personal touches like a live musical rendition of “Two Men in Love” performed by friends, favorite movie quotes, and personal vows. It was intimate, beautiful, and Eriq and Ashley all the way!
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​Block One - Old Town Fun
After the ceremony, guests made their way to the reception that was held at Block One Events, north of Old Town. While guests enjoyed a refreshing cocktail hour, Eriq and Ashley and their wedding party made their way throughout Old Town Square on a Bar Crawl to a couple of their favorite Old Town spots. They enjoyed shots and drinks at Lucky Joes and Old Elk Distillery.
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​Eriq and Ashley had originally planned for their reception to be held at the Agave Room above the Rio, but unfortunately, a fire in the facility made that impossible. Fortunately, The Rio was still able to cater their reception at Block One. Guests were treated to Rio tacos and nachos for dinner!
 
Guests spent the evening dancing, drinking, and celebrating! Eriq’s son, Kobe, kept the fun and music going all night long as the event DJ.
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​We were thrilled that Eriq and Ashley asked us to be a part of their Big Day! It was an honor that they trusted us to help them navigate all of the uncertainty that came with planning a wedding during the time of covid and with all of the last-minute changes that the fire at the Rio threw at them. They met every challenge with grace and patience.
 
 
Congratulations, Eriq and Ashley!
 
 
Venue: The Elizabeth Hotel, Block One Events
Photographer: PhoCo
Florist: CC’s Flower Truck
Officiant: Matt Workman, Friend
 
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Favorite Colorado Wedding Venues

9/6/2021

 
​With 15 years in the business, the My Big Day team has seen a lot of wedding venues. Over the years, we’ve developed rewarding working relationships with some of our favorite venues that brides and grooms rave about year after year. Don’t plan your Colorado wedding without checking out these venues:
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​YMCA of Estes Park
The YMCA of Estes Park in the picturesque Rocky Mountains is inclusive and affordable. Lodging and catering are available on-site, along with outdoor activities so you can choose to make a whole weekend out of your visit. Various locations on the property accommodate anywhere from 15-450 guests. Get married indoors or in the mountain air. The YMCA schedules weddings throughout the week.
 
More information, including the wedding pricing guide, is available here.
 
Contact the Special Events Coordinator at 970-586-3341 ext.1024 or weddingsepc@ymcarockies.org.

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​Silverthorne Pavilion
 
Weddings at the Silverthorne Pavilion include an outdoor ceremony space and industrial indoor reception space. This venue offers alcohol services, use of the grounds, setup of tables and chairs, access to a centerpiece materials closet, use of sound systems, bride and groom suites, and an on-site attendant. Kitchen use, A/V equipment and tech support, and fireplace use are available for a fee. Silverthorne is located near several Rocky Mountain attractions, making it ideal for destination weddings.
 
For more details, email alydon@Silverthorne.org or call 970-262-7391. 2021 rates, fees, and floor plans are available online.
 
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Lone Tree Creek Event Center
 
The Lone Tree Creek Event Center is a DIY venue with a beautiful, rustic backdrop. Get married in the grassy fields surrounding the venue and follow up with a reception inside the modern barn.
 
To get a quote, reserve a date, or for any other questions, call 970-405-7057.
 

Della Terra Mountain Chateau

Della Terra is Mountain Luxury at its finest. Located in Estes Park, nestled up alongside Rocky Mountain National Park, guests can enjoy a true chateau, fresh mountain air, and the occaisional woodland guest during a ceremony.

You can reach one of their planning experts at  970-586-2501   or 
weddings@dellaterramountainchateau.com
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To get started planning your wedding with My Big Day at one of these venues, contact us here or call 970-613-1455. Follow us on Facebook for wedding planning tips and to see our most recent work.
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How the Movies Portray Event Planning, and What it Really Looks Like

3/25/2021

 
If you’ve been bingeing on wedding movies in preparation for your big day, titles like “The Wedding Planner,” “Bridesmaids,” and “Bride Wars” probably come to mind. We’ll admit, some of us enjoy a girls’ night in with these guilty pleasure films – but they’re not totally accurate in depicting the event planning world.
 
Here are a few things the movies get wrong about what event planning REALLY looks like:
 
The over-the-top weddings
Movie weddings tend to be extravagant and exaggerated, which can set unrealistic expectations for brides-to-be. Many of the weddings shown in these rom-coms would cost hundreds of thousands of dollars to recreate – some over a million dollars.

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​Since the average amount couples budget for a wedding in the United States is $33,900, these weddings aren’t feasible for most couples to recreate. The good news is that we can help you create a magazine-worthy wedding even if your budget is less than a sixth of that national average.
 
The drama
Sure, we’ve seen some drama, but not every bride is a Bridezilla, not every mother-of-the-bride has a vendetta against the couple, and not every corporate client is difficult to work with. In fact, we love our clients, past and present.
 
Events are often stressful for clients. After all, it’s your big day, and there’s a lot at stake. But that’s why you hired us! Our job is to relieve that stress and keep the drama to a minimum so you can soak up every memorable moment.
 
Still - sometimes real life is even MORE unbelievable
What if the picturesque trolley you hired to shuttle guests to their hotels after your scenic mountain wedding can’t make it out of the icy parking lot? Or, what if a water pipe bursts in the wall just before your ceremony on a -20 degree day?
 
Yes, we have seen those things happen. Event planning requires equal parts perfectionism and flexibility. You don’t want your event planner to be a deer in headlights when something doesn’t go according to plan. That’s why you hire us!
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​We don’t get involved in clients’ personal lives
As tempted as we may be if our client were Matthew McConaughey, you won’t catch us out drinking and dancing with a groom-to-be. We help our clients navigate personal circumstances from a logistical perspective, but we won’t be hanging around outside of meetings or gossiping with family members.
 
We work as a team
Certainly, there are solo event planners out there who make it work. But we find that event planning works best as a team. Remember that burst water pipe we mentioned? While some of our team was collecting gushing water in trash cans and throwing it outside, the rest of us were seamlessly conducting a wedding ceremony in the next room – on time, we might add.
 
Meet our team of talented women here.
 
We don’t use code words
Okay, we could do this if we really wanted to, but we find it works just as well to communicate discreetly about what’s really going on. We always strive for transparency when it’s appropriate. And when we’re trying to mitigate your stress on the day of your big event, we’ll handle it as a team behind the scenes. 
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​The perfect vision takes planning – and lots of logistics
If events magically fell into place, we’d be out of a job. Having a vision is great, but what happens when your dream venue doesn’t allow you to work with the outside caterer you had your heart set on?
 
Weddings and all other events require juggling lots of moving parts. If you have an event planner from the start, you won’t run into these issues. But even if you come to us further along in the process, don’t worry – we are great problem-solvers.
 
We don’t trash talk past clients with our current clients (and we certainly don’t take bets on how long marriages will last)
These things are unprofessional – not to mention just in bad taste. We wish all of our clients – couples, families, small businesses, and large corporations – the best, and we strive to give you the best. We won’t be broadcasting your pre-ceremony breakdown or the frustration you expressed during a high-stress time.
 
All this said, there are some films that do get it right. If you want to know what event planning is like behind the scenes, check out “Fyre” (a cautionary tale of event planning gone wrong), “The First Monday in May,” or “The Ultimate Wedding Planner.”
 
Need more convincing? Read about our top 10 reasons to hire a wedding planner. P.S. – these reasons also apply to work events, concerts, and anything else you can dream up!
 
Hire My Big Day – for business, for community, for love, and for fun.

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Get to know MBD Wedding Couple Eriq & Ashley

2/3/2021

 
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​We’ve seen their fun family photos, and have heard a little bit about their Big Day plans.

Now, we’re taking some time to really get to know our special 2021 MBD wedding couple - Eriq & Ashley.

​They have a fun and exciting love story, and we can’t wait to see it come full circle in September when they tie the knot on top of
The Elizabeth Hotel in front of family and friends.
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We sent a series of questions to both Eriq & Ashley and here are some of their responses:

How did you two meet?
Eriq: Well we met on tinder. I was over tinder but decided to go back through my matches to see if I had missed anyone worthwhile, and there she was! She had orange hair in the pic, and orange is my fav color so I took it as a sign, lol. I hit her up, and we went on our 1st date at the now non-existent Enzios. We pretty much laughed the whole time, and hit it off pretty great, and agreed to more dates. I had to go to Tour de Fat the next day because- obviously -  but she had her son Zep, so she couldn't make it. We snapchatted all day and it made her laugh, so that's cool.
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Ashley:  We met on Tinder, and by the time that we set up a date I was almost finished with the tinder experience.  We started our relationship on a last hope, lol.

What was your first impression?
Ashley: First impression was shock, because I actually finally liked the guy I was on a date with!  I remember his amazing skin color and how nice his smile was.  I could also carry a nice conversation with him, unlike my other Tinder dates.
What are your favorite things about your partner?
Eriq: My fav thing about Ash is her compassion for others. She really is a kind soul but suffers, as a lot of us do, from not believing she's worthy of love, or the finer things life can offer. Because of this she puts up a pretty tough exterior. She's loud and combative, but will listen if she believes she will be listened to - and I dig that man! 
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Ashley: I love how Eriq knows how to deal with me.  I can be a little crazy at times and he allows that and handles it with such grace.  He is the calm to my storm, and that is what I need in my life. 
 
 
In what ways are you most alike? In what ways are you most different?
Eriq: She will listen if she believes she will be listened to. We're a lot alike in that sense. I guess where we most differ is where we put our priorities. Not that any one of us is wrong or doesn't have priorities, just that they seldomly align with one another. We both work toward our goals just in different ways. She's also way louder than I am. 

Ashley: I think the way that we are most alike is how much fun we both like to have.  We are always down for a good time and have a blast at doing it! As far as differences -  I would say that my answer is very similar to Eriq's.  Our priorities of what's important to us are out of line with each other.  That honestly is mostly with stuff around the house for me! Cleaning and what not.
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How did the proposal go?
Eriq: My proposal to Ash went like this...so we often have friends over to our house for various get togethers. This occasion called for her friends to come hang out, and was sold as a “kids date” thing so her son Zep could play with her friends’ daughters. They were of course in on it as I had told them my intentions. There was a bit of drama…. the drama came from one of her friends having an issue with one of my friends (that really wasn't an issue because I had cleared it with her prior, but ash didn't know and thought there was still drama there). Then as all these people started showing up Ash got upset with me for inviting friends she thought had problems with each other. I said something like, "hey sometimes parties just materialize and there's nothing we can do about it." Then as people were about to finish with these really amazing smoked ribs our friend Nolan Shore made, and as Ash was really good and pissed at me, I dropped and popped and she said, “Why not, couldn't hurt right?” LOL Anyway, I'm sure someone has a video of it. All in all it was pretty hilarious and fun. Although Ash might have something different to say about it. 

Ashley: Eriq pretty much nailed this one.
 
  
What are you looking forward to on your wedding day?
Eriq: I guess on our wedding day, I'm most looking forward to Ash professing her relentless and undying devotion to me in front of our friends and family. Also kinda jazzed about the badass suite on top of The Elizabeth Hotel for a couple days. 
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Ashley:  I'm most looking forward to saying yes to the love of my life for the rest of my life!  I also look forward to seeing him cry, HA!!  Especially if his mom starts crying!
Why do you love Ashley?
Why do I love Ash....sheesh, how long do you want this to get?? I love Ash for who she is, what she's accomplished, and what she's capable of in the future. She's my person, my ultimate ride or die, and even though we can never ever ever play monopoly together, we make a really great team! 
 
Why do you love Eriq?
I love Eriq because he is my other half.   He will always have my back and will love me endlessly.  He accepts me for who I am and loves me despite my flaws and weaknesses.
 
What are your honeymoon plans?
Eriq: Our honeymoon is kinda cliche. We plan on going to Greece or somewhere in the Mediterranean, and chill for about ten days or so.
 
Ashley:  Hopefully, if things go as planned, we will be spending our Honeymoon in Greece!  But not before we celebrate Tour De Fat!!  So excited to party the day after the wedding as well for one of the biggest events that Fort Collins hosts!
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5 Ways to Support the 2020 Wedding Season’s “COVID Couples” (And 3 Things to Avoid)

9/22/2020

 
You may have friends or family members – dubbed “COVID Couples’ – who have had to postpone or cancel their weddings because of the pandemic. For most couples, this is a difficult decision to make, and may bring up feelings of sadness, anger, or even loss. Here are some ways to support the special people in your life whose weddings have been affected by COVID – and some things to avoid. 
 
DO:
 
1. Send a surprise gift on their original wedding day. This is likely to be the most difficult day for the couple. Consider sending flowers, sweets, or a gift card for a takeout date night with a note saying you are thinking of them. If you’re on a budget, stick with a handwritten note dropped at their doorstep or surprise them with FaceTime or a phone call. Don’t forget about the groom!
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​2. Listen. Be a shoulder to cry on for your friends and family. Venting can be a therapeutic way to deal with negative emotions from having to postpone or cancel their wedding. Be open and understanding, but not dismissive or overly positive.
 
3. Contact vendors. A lot goes in to planning a wedding. If your couple has hired a wedding planner, they can help with reaching out to the vendors the couple has chosen. If not, consider the numerous contracts with the florist, photographer, caterer, cake decorator, venue, DJ, furniture rentals, day-of coordinator, and many more that may exist. Depending on the vendor and the wording of each contract, meetings with vendors may involve renegotiating the contract, maintaining it but postponing the date, or asking for a partial refund. 
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4. Give them resources. There are many couples in the same boat, and many community and support groups online. The Zola Facebook Community  has almost 12,000 members in the throes of pandemic wedding planning. For more local advice, check out Colorado COVID-19 Wedding Support.
 
5. Deal with guests. Offer to help contact guests to notify them of changes to the event. This could involve a formal, mailed update, or an email or text if the wedding was scheduled for just a few weeks away. Be sure to introduce yourself to the couple’s family and friends if making calls or sending texts on their behalf. You can also help answer guests’ follow-up questions about reservations they had for the wedding or the timing of the rescheduled event (if there is one).
 
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​DON’T:
1. Give opinions or advice unless it is solicited by the couple. It is complicated and confusing trying to reschedule a large event with many moving parts, never mind with unwarranted opinions thrown into the mix. Give advice only if you are asked to by the couple.
 
2. Be overly positive or dismissive. Saying, “It’s going to be fine,” may not go over well. Things may not be okay for your friends or family members, and they don’t have to be. Try saying, “I’m sorry. I wish things were different,” or “I can’t imagine what you’re going through, but I’m here for you.”
 
3. Expect to be able to fix it. As a friend or family member, the best you can do is listen and offer help or advice if it’s requested. Do not try to fix their feelings or the situation.
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What To Ask Before You Propose

7/1/2020

 
So you think you’ve found the PB to your J…..
The bee to your honey….
The love of your life…. 
and now you’re ready to take the next step? 
Before you do, you should really spend some time in personal reflection, and in conversation with your significant other, because in a life changing event such as getting engaged, even some small things can become significant.

The team at My Big Day has pulled together a list of questions you should really consider asking your partner before you ask for their hand in marriage.

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All of these questions are good to consider when you are thinking about taking the next step in your relationship. Open and honest discussions can help build a strong foundation that will weather anything life throws at the two of you.
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As event planners, we serve the entire Front Range;  Southern Wyoming, the CO Mountains, and Northern Colorado: Loveland, Fort Collins, Greeley, Windsor, Berthoud, Estes Park, Lyons, Longmont, Boulder, Wellington, Johnstown, Evans, Severance, Timnath, Mead, Frederick, Firestone, Milliken

COVID-19 Wedded Bliss in Colorado

4/23/2020

 
The My Big Day wedding business has been hit hard due to COVID-19. With all of the cancellations and changes, we wanted to highlight a couple who is a shining example of how to make lemonade out of the lemons they were handed.

Zach and Samantha not only had their wedding cancel... their venue wouldn't offer a refund, they realistically cannot reschedule until next year, their family couldn't fly to them in Colorado to witness them say their vows to each other... but
​they had the right perspective.

Love is what matters most.
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No exquisite venue
No big bridal party
No fancy dinner
No dancing til the wee hours of the morning
No honeymoon suite
No honeymoon
No elaborate photo shoot
​No hair & make-up artist
No photo booth
No gift table
No guest book
No bridal party grand entrance
​No chicken dance
​No limo ride home

What they did have:

Wedding vows
     Wedding rings
          A suite & dress
               Social distancing
                     Masks
                           A few photos
                                  Eternal LOVE
No, their day is not what they had initially pictured, but it was "perfect!"
They got married. They are in love. They have a great story to tell. And they can host a big celebration at a later date.
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Today we raise our virtual glasses to Zach & Samantha!
Congratulations on your marriage!

-The My Big Day team
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